The Best Reply

silence

Orang yang bijak, tahu kapan harus melontarkan kata dan kapan harus menahannya. Ketika sedang berkonflik di dunia maya, berikan klarifikasi seperlunya. Don’t raise your voice, but improve your argument.

Jika masih berlanjut dalam debat berkepanjangan, ahsan hiatus atau puasa socmed aja dulu. Tenangkan diri, tata suasana hati agar lebih nyaman. Baru setelahnya terjun ke sosmed lagi. Jangan memaksakan untuk larut lagi sebelum mood terkendali dengan baik.

Always rethink before posting. Berusaha sebaik mungkin menahan jari kita dari mengeluarkan kata-kata yang boleh jadi nanti akan disesali di kemudian hari. Jangan terbalik, posting dulu baru dipikir kemudian.

Staying quiet doesn’t mean you have nothing to say. Often the most powerful statement is your dignified silence.

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Life in A Year

closed doors..

Looking at it now…

How many things has changed in a year. Feelings, beliefs, trust, personality. It’s amazing how human heart is made from the only substance in this universe that can become stronger, after it’s been broken.

Sure there’s no way we could turn back the time, but there will always be an invaluable lesson for us to learn. Always. Wise people know exactly how to deal when things turned out to be not like what they’ve expected.

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