Communication is The Key

“A healthy adult relationship is one where both people in the relationship give and both receive. There is a safe and open exchange of ideas, feelings, and thoughts, and all perspectives are considered and valued. There is also the freedom to respectfully challenge, confront, and strengthen one another.” ~Leslie Vernick

Dalam kehidupan pernikahan, komunikasi yang baik adalah koentji!

Ketika kita merasa tidak nyaman dengan perlakuan pasangan, jangan ragu untuk menyampaikannya langsung. Ketika kita merasa senang dengan sikap pasangan, katakan terus terang. Segala hal perlu dikomunikasikan, agar ia paham perasaan kita.

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It’s Love…

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Love is not just a guy holding a girl and going around the city,
Nor what you see in the movies.

It’s love..
When a little girl puts her energy to give her dad a head massage.

It’s love..
When a wife makes tea for her husband and take a sip before him.

It’s love..
When a mother gives her son the best piece of cake.

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Dear Single Mothers…

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Selalu salut dengan para ibu single fighter, yang berjuang untuk menafkahi, mendidik dan membesarkan anak-anaknya seorang diri, dengan apa yang mereka punya.

Don’t know why, but brave and headstrong women always fascinate me. Especially those single Moms. They are no ordinary women. They are the special ones.

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Independent Woman

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“I was told I was dangerous. I asked why, and their response was, “because you don’t depend on anyone.” And I smiled.” ~Unknown

Sebagian orang bilang…

“Perempuan itu kalau sudah biasa mandiri, bahaya.. Bisa lupa diri akan kedudukannya sebagai perempuan yang harusnya dipimpin oleh laki-laki..”

Atau…

“Perempuan yang biasa mandiri itu, biasanya disepelekan sama laki-laki. Dianggap terlalu perkasa, bisa mengerjakan semua hal tanpa bantuan. Jadi semua tugas diserahkan kepadanya, padahal lelakinya mampu mengerjakannya..”

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Everything You Do

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Allah sees everything that you do for your husband even when your husband fails to notice the little things. Nothing is being forgotten and nothing is being left off your record.

An angel is recording every good intention you are thinking about, even if you can’t follow through, and writing down every kind and loving action you do take action on, knowing that Allah will increase your reward.

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