Leaving a Toxic and Abusive Relationship

“Self love is so important. Because when you’re all alone and it’s 3 in the morning and you’re lying on the floor crying and shaking and wishing it all would end, who’s going to be there for you? You. You have to pick yourself up and find the strength to carry on. At the end of the day, you’re all you’ve got.” —Unknown

In a good and healthy relationship, there is a feeling about being safe, secure, and convenient. An undefined connection. Ada rasa aman, nyaman juga kedekatan yang tidak terjelaskan. Someone who feels like home.

We don’t need to put a mask or fake a smile. We mean what we say. We can be ourselves, inside and out. We are sincere and honest with our feelings. We are not afraid to express our emotions, what bother our minds, without any hesitation.

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Communication is The Key

“A healthy adult relationship is one where both people in the relationship give and both receive. There is a safe and open exchange of ideas, feelings, and thoughts, and all perspectives are considered and valued. There is also the freedom to respectfully challenge, confront, and strengthen one another.” ~Leslie Vernick

Dalam kehidupan pernikahan, komunikasi yang baik adalah koentji!

Ketika kita merasa tidak nyaman dengan perlakuan pasangan, jangan ragu untuk menyampaikannya langsung. Ketika kita merasa senang dengan sikap pasangan, katakan terus terang. Segala hal perlu dikomunikasikan, agar ia paham perasaan kita.

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It’s Love…


Love is not just a guy holding a girl and going around the city,
Nor what you see in the movies.

It’s love..
When a little girl puts her energy to give her dad a head massage.

It’s love..
When a wife makes tea for her husband and take a sip before him.

It’s love..
When a mother gives her son the best piece of cake.

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Dear Single Mothers…


Selalu salut dengan para ibu single fighter, yang berjuang untuk menafkahi, mendidik dan membesarkan anak-anaknya seorang diri, dengan apa yang mereka punya.

Don’t know why, but brave and headstrong women always fascinate me. Especially those single Moms. They are no ordinary women. They are the special ones.

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