Unfriend or Deactivate Your Profile?

Ketika merasa tidak nyaman dengan pribadi atau perilaku satu atau dua orang teman di media sosial, what would you do? Deactive/delete akun sementara/selamanya, atau unfriend/unfollow orang yang bersangkutan?

Saya memilih opsi yang kedua.

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Leaving a Toxic and Abusive Relationship

“Self love is so important. Because when you’re all alone and it’s 3 in the morning and you’re lying on the floor crying and shaking and wishing it all would end, who’s going to be there for you? You. You have to pick yourself up and find the strength to carry on. At the end of the day, you’re all you’ve got.” —Unknown

In a good and healthy relationship, there is a feeling about being safe, secure, and convenient. An undefined connection. Ada rasa aman, nyaman juga kedekatan yang tidak terjelaskan. Someone who feels like home.

We don’t need to put a mask or fake a smile. We mean what we say. We can be ourselves, inside and out. We are sincere and honest with our feelings. We are not afraid to express our emotions, what bother our minds, without any hesitation.

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Removing Toxic People from Your Life

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“You don’t ever have to feel guilty about removing toxic people from your life.

It doesn’t matter whether someone is a relative, romantic interest, employer, childhood friend, or a new acquaintance — you don’t have to make room for people who cause you pain or make you feel small.

It’s one thing if a person owns up to their behavior and makes an effort to change. But if a person disregards your feelings, ignores your boundaries, and continues to treat you in a harmful way, they need to go.”

 —Danielle Koepke (via anditslove)

In life, you meet many types of people. There are people who sincerely mean well to you, and people who are maliciously mean. There are people who always bring the best in you, and people who can’t wait to bring you down.

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